The secrets between men and their beauties

1. She doesn’t monopolize you but shares your feelings

When you are sick in bed and fighting with pain, the one who is holding your hand and crying must be your wife. She is afraid that you will be in pain and die, and she wants to be in pain and die for you. She cries and cries, which moves you and makes you feel uneasy. But your confidante does not cry. She just stands at the head of the bed, staring at you quietly, reading your heart, and then tells you with her mouth, her eyes, and her heart that she knows where your pain is, she understands you, and is willing to share your pain silently, so that your soul is no longer lonely and you are relieved. This shows the difference between the two in nature: crying is because she loves you; not crying is because she understands you.

If a man has a woman who loves him deeply and a woman who understands him, what else can he ask for?

2. All of my confidantes are extremely intelligent girls.

A woman who can be a confidante actually knows best in her heart: if a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she can either be his mother or be his confidante, which he can never have. She understands him, but she does not belong to him.

Giving him the right amount of care, but not giving him deep affection, not giving him the threat of you falling in love with him, and not letting him have the impulse and passion to fall in love with you, this is the skill of being a confidante. In the final analysis, a confidante includes many things. Love is too short, marriage is too boring, only a confidante can last long. Therefore, women who can be content to be a man's confidante are usually very open-minded and smart.

3. Satisfy men’s vanity

Some women are born to be friends. They like a relaxed relationship and hate being bound by rules just like men do. This is undoubtedly the type of friend that more men appreciate. So even if they are not so "confidants", men still like to be friends with such women.

Enjoying the care and closeness of women other than his wife or lover can satisfy a man's vanity to a great extent.

4. A confidante is the perfect listener

Usually, a wife is the one who tells the story, while a confidante is the one who listens. In front of her, a man can be a tired bird, a prodigal son, tired, lonely, helpless, escapist, lazy, and she can accept your darkness, give you peace, and be the space for you to restore your energy. Therefore, a confidante is the peerless beauty of the past.

If the wife is the sun and the lover is the moon, then the confidante is the stars. The sun and the moon get tired sometimes, but the stars never do. They twinkle and shine, yet are willing to be lonely and yet are brilliant and long-lasting.

No matter how high and mighty you are in front of others, you are only dignified but not majestic in the eyes of your confidante. She can penetrate through layers of masks, enter your heart as if she were no one else, and have a dialogue and communication with you in a language that both you and she understand.

5. There is only a thin line between a confidante and a lover

If you like a woman, you can first let her become your confidante. In the slow emotional communication, penetrate her heart. In the constant understanding, you can find that the feelings between the two are constantly heating up. Then when to have a physical relationship and become lovers is only a matter of subjective will.

But once you are in a relationship, your relationship is no longer just friends, but lovers, and the way you get along with each other will be completely different. Therefore, although it is easy to have friends of the opposite sex, it is not easy to find a confidante, so cherish her when you meet her.