Important details before a man cheats

1. There is no reason to explain his abnormal behavior.

Men are born masters of lying and hiding, so he may develop the habit of deleting text messages very frequently, spraying perfume very often (to cover up the scent of other women), never putting important things in his pockets (such as movie tickets, condoms), etc., and destroying evidence thoroughly.

Although you will hardly find actual physical evidence, his psychology will betray his actions, and one of his actions will betray his other actions.

Therefore, before a "conscientious" man cheats, he will always feel guilty, and his behavior will be to find ways to make up for you: he suddenly wants to help you realize a wish you made a few years ago; he, who is usually not romantic, inexplicably buys you roses and invites you to eat Western food...

Once those "heartless" men cheat, they will become moody, often find fault with you, and try every means to anger you. This mentality is like he knows he has done something wrong, but he does not know how to repent, but finds fault with you, so psychologically he will be much more balanced. Even if he goes too far, at most it will make you hate him more, or even take the initiative to break up with him, then cheating becomes a natural thing.

2. He wants to separate from you or break up with you more than anyone else

When we watch movies or TV, we often see this kind of scene: when a woman says she is leaving, the man starts to pretend to care about her, but as soon as the woman leaves, he goes on a date with his lover. In fact, this kind of situation does not only appear on camera: if you are on a business trip or back to your parents' home, and he cares more about your schedule and date than before, he seems more excited than you, or pretends to be exaggeratedly depressed to deliberately hide his inner joy, then you should pay attention to him.

If your slightest mistake can cause his dissatisfaction, he will break up with you at any time, has no mood to talk to you, and does not care about any consequences, then you should also be doubly careful. I am afraid that only when he has transferred his affection to someone else will he be more eager to break up with you than anyone else.

3. His lifestyle is very different from before

If he suddenly becomes interested in something, or even starts to like something he didn’t like before; if he would rather work overtime than spend more time with you, or would rather be busy with his work than communicate with you; if he often asks you “what do you women think about this” or “what do you think of this dress (but he doesn’t buy it for you in the end)”…

Then, he may have changed because of another woman, and you should pay more attention.

4. He deliberately distances you from each other

I have a female friend whose boyfriend was better off than her and came from a good family. However, he had always been very humble in front of her and never mentioned things like status and money, which made her feel that they were a perfect match.

But she recalled that the most obvious sign of her boyfriend's cheating was that he often mentioned his family situation and showed off what he was wearing to her, which made her feel like a Cinderella and not a good match for him. Then, within two months, her boyfriend took the initiative to expose his true colors to her.

So if a man deliberately distances himself from you, discusses different topics, does different things, or guards his privacy and doesn't let you move or touch him, then he is very likely planning to cheat on you in the future.

5. Don’t forget the kind reminders from your friends and acquaintances

A popular joke on Weibo is that if a thief is caught stealing money by the driver, but the driver doesn't dare to disrupt order by reminding you, he will try to find out by repeatedly pressing the "arrival notification" button or repeatedly shouting to passengers: "Is there anyone arriving at the station behind you?"

Similarly, if a friend you haven't contacted for a long time suddenly asks you about your recent private life and is very concerned about your relationship with your boyfriend, it is very likely that she is reminding you indirectly: your boyfriend has a problem!

6. Details captured by a woman’s sixth sense

A woman's sixth sense can sometimes really help her a lot. A netizen once wrote to me. In the first letter, she said that she found that her boyfriend looked at other women in a strange way, and she was upset about it every day. I wrote back to her, telling her not to get angry about it, but to follow the clues and pay more attention to other abnormalities in the other party. As a result, two weeks later, her second letter proved that her initial judgment was correct.

However, women have wronged many men simply by relying on their sixth sense, and at the same time, they have made themselves uneasy. Therefore, women should use their sixth sense as a reference, but they should not think that it is omnipotent, and they should not argue with men for no reason because of it.

Cheating is a prudent thing for both the man and himself. Lao Chou summarized eight words that can be kept in mind when dealing with cheating: keep your eyes open and your heart open. This is all there is to love and marriage.