The psychology of a 35-year-old man

Generally, men aged 30 to 35 are the most confused. This is the period when men are most confused. Men who are in the period when they are most confused at work generally have "three highs": high impulse, high work pressure, and high risk, that is, they pursue perfection in work and life and are highly impulsive. What are the psychological states of men aged 30?

1. Difficulty in overall planning

Many men are uncertain about their precise positioning before the age of 30, and have not made a good overall plan for their future. Perhaps because they are young and have no work experience, they think things are too simple, or because they are young and a little arrogant. When they are around 30 years old, they have been in the workplace for six or seven years, have seen a lot of things, have changed a lot, and have a more precise positioning of themselves. At this time, they are eager to make a further career development plan. However, although a large number of them want to position themselves more accurately, there will always be some errors and problems, or the precise positioning is unclear, or they can't find the entry point, or they are willing but unable to implement it. All of these have cast a huge shadow on his future of climbing higher.

2. Emotional Aspect

“At 30, one is established; at 40, one is free from doubts.” The so-called “free from doubts” means being able to understand in many ways, which means no longer being confused by emotions, no longer being blinded by emotions, no longer being confused and blinded by worldly vanity, no longer being tempted by money and beauty (this sentence is purely for the purpose of expressing “free from doubts”. Our ancestors believed that people should be “free from doubts” when they reach 40, but as a contemporary 30-year-old man, perhaps you should be “free from doubts”.

In reality, from ancient times to the present, how many people are not tempted by money and beauty? Admiring beauty is human nature and should not be blamed, but modern people pay attention to the bottom line of being a human being. It is the "rules of the game" of social development and family. To be honest, many men "break the rules" in these aspects. A responsible 30-year-old man is responsible for family, work and social development. Generally, he will not easily destroy the harmonious family and successful work that he has worked hard to build. Even if his work is not successful, he will cherish his position because he knows that he has to make money to support his family. Even if his wife is not very beautiful, he will cherish his family because he knows that only she is the most suitable for him and loves him the most.

Most men in their 30s are loyal in their feelings. They are loyal to their wives. They no longer talk about feelings at this age because they have already turned into true love. Because of this, some men keep this true love and choose the so-called "late love" or "lost love". This is usually the "patent" of some rich or talented men. This is naturally unfair to the wives who give them everything and everything for them, because she was also beautiful and young before. Most husbands need their wives' second love. This love includes true love and friendship, which is ignored by many female friends. Please pay attention to it and let your husband love you again.

3. Marriage Life

Men in their 30s are very cautious and determined about marriage. Whether they are single, divorced or divorced, they are very considerate of each other and will not rush into a relationship. Singles often do not get married, not because they are poor or stupid, but because they are more rational in some aspects, and they are not afraid of wasting their golden years by being dazzled.

But you can't think that they won't be able to get married in the future, because there are women of the same age and the same ideas waiting for them. Divorces are often divorced, and the reasons are many and complicated. Some men "offend" and some women "go astray". These situations are different, but although 30-year-old men have a desire for young girls, most of them are still unwilling to give up their wives.

4. Home Level

Most men choose to become fathers between the ages of 30 and 35. Men feel more pressure in life after becoming fathers, mainly due to economic and work pressure. With elderly parents and young children to take care of, how can they earn enough salary without working hard? In addition, men in this stage must spend a lot of time and energy to solve family problems, so they cannot devote all their money to work. Therefore, men in this period are prone to various problems such as work burnout.

It is a scary thing for men to reach 30 years old. Compared with other men, men in their 30s are more tired and tend to be lazy in work and life. Therefore, men in their 30s should learn to adjust themselves to various work pressures.