Do boys know when they ejaculate?

Boys can feel their own ejaculation because ejaculation is a process that requires the penis to be affected by sexual stimulation, which promotes the contraction of the penis and the ejection of semen from the vas deferens. Men can feel something overflowing, which is the same as the feeling of urination. Women can also feel it when ejaculating inside their bodies. However, men have no feeling when they ejaculate and not ejaculating is an abnormal physiological phenomenon.

Generally you will feel it, but even if you don't ejaculate, a small amount of sperm will still flow out.

What is male ejaculation syndrome?

1. Causes of primary anejaculation:

Patients who have never ejaculated while awake have primary absolute anejaculation, which may be caused by sexual ignorance or sexual inhibition, and may or may not have ejaculation at ordinary times. Patients who can ejaculate during masturbation or with non-sexual stimulation such as the woman's hands or mouth are called primary selective anejaculation. This is unconscious resistance, incorrect views on vaginal ejaculation, or insufficient stimulation of nerve excitement during sexual intercourse, the ejaculation reflex is not "connected", or the intensity of the reflex is not reached. The patient can first stimulate the woman to produce sexual excitement and pleasure, and then use self-masturbation to achieve the purpose of ejaculation. Sometimes he can ejaculate with the help of the woman, and sometimes the woman's participation will inhibit ejaculation, and he can only rely on masturbation. The causes of anejaculation are as follows:

(1) Sexual ignorance. Before marriage, both parties do not know what sexual intercourse is. They lack sexual knowledge and do not know what the other party wants. They may even be afraid of sexual relations or be too shy to have sexual intercourse for several months after marriage. Some people do not know that sexual intercourse requires continuous friction with a high frequency and large amplitude inside the vagina, and they do not even know that sexual intercourse will lead to ejaculation.

The sexual intercourse posture is incorrect, and some people do not even know the location of the vagina. They have long-term intercourse in the anus or urethra. During intercourse, they feel the urge to urinate (mostly men), and they interrupt intercourse for fear of getting the bed sheets wet. After urination, the penis becomes flaccid and intercourse cannot continue, resulting in anejaculation.

(2) Mental and emotional factors. Men have a certain "taboo" against sex and regard sex as a scourge. This is mostly because the education they received since childhood distorted sex into something obscene, dirty, and lewd. Or they are dissatisfied with their current spouse and are obsessed with their old lover; they are hostile to their spouse and suspect that their wife is having an affair; or the woman has been raped or had sexual experiences, and the husband is still resentful about it; or they are in debt after marriage, have great mental pressure, and their sexual desire has dropped sharply; due to the nervous psychology of newlyweds, after several failed sexual lives, they are treated coldly and disgusted by their wives, which forms sexual perversion stimulation, gradually loses interest in the opposite sex, reduces their sexual desire, avoids sexual intercourse, and even leads to marital estrangement.

(3) Female factors. The female is afraid of pain during intercourse, vaginal abrasion, cervicitis, or cystitis, so she restricts the male from thrusting. The female has a poor physical condition and is bored with sexual activity, which frustrates the male's sexual impulse.

(4) Objective factors. For example, the house is small, several people live in one room, the environment is noisy, and sexual inhibition is formed; the two parties have different jobs, different working hours, and uncoordinated sexual activities; the man is too tired from work, etc.

(5) Anatomical factors. If the foreskin is too long, it will rub against the vagina, causing unbearable itching of the glans penis; if the foreskin is incarcerated and painful, sexual intercourse will be interrupted; if there is severe pharyngitis, atrophic changes will occur, and the penis cannot effectively participate in the ejaculation process.

(6) Homosexual men who marry women due to family or social pressure and are unable to achieve erection during sexual intercourse after marriage, or who are able to achieve erection after stimulation but suffer from anejaculation due to their aversion to sexual intercourse between men and women.

2. Causes of secondary anejaculation:

(1) After the first marriage, the sexual impulse is very intense. During intercourse, the person can ejaculate even without twitching. However, after this peak period, the person cannot ejaculate due to improper methods. After marriage, due to various factors or strong career ambitions, the person does not want to have children for the time being, and adopts measures such as external ejaculation and condoms for contraception. When the person plans to have children, he or she does not ejaculate due to certain psychological factors.

(2) Being discovered and punished for masturbation or improper sexual activities, resulting in mental trauma; being criticized for being pregnant while living together before marriage, which leads to a fear of pregnancy and anejaculation after marriage; frequent masturbation before marriage, which leads to strong stimulation and the influence of various false propaganda about the dangers of masturbation, which leads to anejaculation after marriage; emotional injury or discord, which leads to a fear of ejaculation; sexual psychological abnormalities, such as being able to ejaculate when having an affair but not when having sex with his wife, which is secondary accidental anejaculation; and lack of coordination between the two parties.

The above is a detailed introduction on "Why do men have anejaculation syndrome?" I hope it will be helpful to everyone. In fact, anejaculation syndrome in men is mainly caused by abnormal central nervous system function, intellectual abnormality, emotional disorder, and sexual psychological abnormality, which ultimately lead to anejaculation syndrome.