First time sex tips for men and women

Everything has a first time, especially the first time a man and a woman have sex. Before doing so, you should learn more about the relevant knowledge to prevent psychological shadows caused by improper behavior. The first time sex skills for men and women include both physical and psychological aspects. Men should pay attention to their attitude and posture, pay attention to the woman's reaction at all times, and relax and be fully prepared.

Tips for first time sex

1. Relax. Everyone's first time is both nervous and exciting. In order to have a better start for our first time, we should maintain a good attitude, relax, avoid anxiety and tension, take deep breaths or listen to music.

2. Be well prepared. Boys should watch relevant videos in advance to understand the general situation and avoid the embarrassing situation of not knowing anything for the first time.

3. Comfort girls. 90% of girls are extremely afraid of pain when they have sex for the first time, so boys should comfort girls in advance and must not be too chauvinistic and should treat them gently.

4. Preventive measures: Take preventive safety measures and prepare condoms and contraceptives in advance to avoid unnecessary troubles afterwards.

5. Do a good foreplay. In order to have a better first sexual intercourse, boys should touch the sensitive parts of the girl's body in advance, such as ears, lower body, and cheeks, so as to ignite her youthful hormones and cooperate better.

Common questions about first-time sex

1. Men cannot find the vaginal opening. This is mainly because men know too little about physiological knowledge. They only have a fantasy about the female body in their minds and have no real physiological knowledge. If you don't understand the psychological and physiological needs of women, you will often be busy for a long time but still get nowhere. In fact, the structure of the female reproductive system is introduced in many places. You can first have a general understanding of it and pay attention to the difference between the urethral opening and the vaginal opening.

2. Women cannot tolerate pain. Women may feel pain because men have little knowledge of physiology and fail to distinguish between the female urethra and vagina, which may lead to incorrect operation. On the other hand, it may be caused by women being too shy and nervous. Both men and women should understand some physiological common sense when trying for the second time, and men should caress their wives appropriately during sex, with gentle movements and attention to rhythm, and try to have sex only after the female vagina is naturally open and moist.

3. Erection difficulties When having sex for the first time, men often have a lot of mental burdens, fearing that they will not perform well, fearing that they are not capable enough, and will feel the burden of "sexual impotence" because of fear. If the mind is not focused, the quality of erection will be affected. To overcome this situation, foreplay actions such as hugging and caressing are needed to help.

4. Pain after sex Some men experience pain after sex. First of all, you don't have to be afraid. This is a normal phenomenon. The penis is filled with blood after erection, but the blood return function is relatively weak, causing short-term swelling and pain after sex. Generally, it disappears in 1 to 3 hours. If you try to have sex many times on your first night, you will also experience this. You can control the frequency appropriately in the future.

Things to note when having sex for the first time

1. Pay attention to the hygiene of the external genitalia. If the hygiene is not in place, it is easy to cause inflammation. Therefore, pay attention to cleaning the external genitalia with warm water before starting. At the same time, after finishing, you should also use appropriate amount of cleaning to ensure hygiene.

2. Don't be too impatient and rough. When you have sex for the first time, you must be gentle with your movements. This will be good for both of you. Otherwise, it is easy for private parts to be damaged or even swollen. You will feel nervous, shy and afraid, but try to stay calm. Don't rush to enter, take it slowly and don't move too big.

3. You can try several times. You may not be able to succeed in the first time, which is also very normal. If it fails once, you can try several times and try to relax. If you feel pain, you can use some lubricant to reduce the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.

4. Don’t subjectively think that it will be painful. The originally tight vagina will feel a little uncomfortable when a foreign object is inserted. However, if the brain has already thought of it as "pain" before it happens, then this new feeling will naturally be considered painful. Coupled with the nervous mood, the pain will be aggravated. It is better to recognize this feeling as a strong sexual stimulation, which may make people feel excited.

5. It is normal for the time to be very short. The first time, the man is too excited due to lack of sexual knowledge and past experience, and will ejaculate prematurely. This is very normal. With the growth of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of experience, plus the increasing understanding between the two parties, it will gradually become normal. In addition, the man will have a period of infertility after ejaculation. After the infertility period, it is usually successful to continue.