I can't ejaculate for a long time, my balls hurt and my waist hurts

"Resisting ejaculation" actually means forcing oneself not to ejaculate during sex through mind control, sexual intercourse movement control, breathing regulation and other personal beliefs and behaviors. This practice was respected in ancient times, and later developed into two deeper levels of consciousness: blood pressure replenishes the brain. It is believed that if you hold back and do not ejaculate, the semen will go up to the human brain and have a nourishing and health-promoting effect. The blood collects yin and replenishes yang. It is believed that men can collect "essence" from women to nourish themselves through sex with "holding firm and not ejaculating" (another name for "retaining ejaculation"). Obviously, now it is seen that this view is all groundless and has no scientific basis.

What should I do if I have testicular pain and lower back pain after being hard for a long time without ejaculation?

If you have a long erection and do not ejaculate, and your testicles and waist hurt, you should immediately check the prostate to see if there is inflammation of the prostate. Generally, you should first cooperate with B-ultrasound to check the prostate and the acid-fast staining test of semen to diagnose the habit of quitting masturbation. In this case, you can go to a reliable hospital for a checkup, confirm it, and take treatment measures. Pay attention to whether there is inflammation? If there is a more serious inflammation, see a doctor immediately.

In fact, modern science has long confirmed that "holding back ejaculation" is not only detrimental to physical and mental health, but also has at least the following three major harms.

1. Incomplete sexual intercourse is harmful to physical and mental health

If a man interrupts his sexual intercourse before the ejaculation stage, it is called incomplete intercourse in medicine. This kind of sexual intercourse will prevent the couple from reaching the climax of sexual desire, so they cannot get enough physical and mental care, especially sexual needs, which is harmful to health. Especially for men, once they "hold back ejaculation", they have to endure the whole process of physiological activity of ejaculation, and have to endure the brainwash of not ejaculating, which will damage the normal function of the human nervous and endocrine systems and is even worse for health. This is in line with the saying: Any personal behavior that violates normal physiological activities is harmful to health.

2. Cause some discomfort and symptoms

If a man stops having sex before ejaculation, the hematoma of the entire urinary system and pelvis will not subside quickly, the cerebral cortex and spinal nerves will remain over-tension for a long time, and the seminal vesicles and prostate glands will not be able to discharge completely. Afterwards, he will feel long-term discomfort, especially the lower body will feel throbbing and heavy. Because of the long-term and widespread hematoma of the seminal vesicles and prostate glands, it will eventually cause non-bacterial prostatitis and seminal vesiculitis, resulting in symptoms such as frequent urination, urgency, incomplete urination, perineal discomfort, back pain, and even ejaculation bleeding.

3. Symptoms that cause impotence

If you get used to "holding back ejaculation" and it becomes a habit, it will lead to ejaculation dysfunction in the long run. Since the neuro-endocrine system is accustomed to the way of "holding back ejaculation", once you want to repair the male ejaculation function, it may never be reversed.

As we all know, proper sexual intercourse, especially one that complies with one's own physiological laws, can make people happy, energetic, and not "depleted". Therefore, the practice of "holding back ejaculation" should be abolished, and this kind of misunderstanding should be avoided from spreading again.