First time I put it in and I came

Many young men and women have troubles when they have sex for the first time. They always fail to do so because of their own blind spots. In fact, some boys can enter a woman's body smoothly, but they fail after a few thrusts, leading to ejaculation, which has a great psychological shadow on the boys. So, is it normal for boys to have premature ejaculation during their first sexual intercourse? How can it be alleviated?

1. Why is premature ejaculation common when first having sex?

The sensory function of the nerve endings and receptors in the head of the penis of unmarried men is quite sensitive. This sensitivity is particularly significant during the first sexual intercourse or the newly married stage, which can easily induce ejaculation and make premature ejaculation difficult to avoid. Men who have their first sexual intercourse or are newly married have extremely high sexual excitement, which causes extremely strong and rapid sexual impulses and sexual reflexes. The central nervous system that controls sexual physiological activities will be unusually sensitive to these fresh and strong stimuli, and the central nervous system that controls ejaculation will quickly issue ejaculation commands, resulting in premature ejaculation.

Some men have an excessive longing and yearning for their first sexual intercourse, and they also have a mysterious feeling about it. Once it really comes, the mental fluctuations sometimes interfere with the normal process of sexual physiological activities, and as a result, it is easy to cause premature ejaculation. Especially when there is nervousness during first sexual intercourse and fear of pain to the woman, premature ejaculation is common during sexual physiological activities.

2. Correctly understand the length of ejaculation time

Premature ejaculation refers to premature ejaculation. In fact, it is difficult to define this time. The length of ejaculation time during sexual intercourse varies greatly from person to person. Even for the same person, the ejaculation time is not the same each time. It is inappropriate for some people to use the length of ejaculation time to measure premature ejaculation. It is necessary to consider individual differences such as age, physical fitness, health status, sexual life experience, number of sexual intercourses, female sexual desire, and the speed of orgasm. Therefore, it is difficult to formulate a specific ejaculation time standard.

According to the survey, the normal time for men to ejaculate is generally more than 1 minute to about 3 minutes, some people can ejaculate in 20 minutes to more than 30 minutes, and some can reach 50-60 minutes. As for those who ejaculate within 1 minute, it also depends on whether the man and woman can be satisfied at this time. If both parties cooperate tacitly, try to have sexual intercourse when the woman is fully excited, and both parties feel satisfied after ejaculation, it should not be regarded as premature ejaculation. Therefore, some people have proposed that ejaculation within less than 1 minute after the penis enters the vagina, or the penis twitches less than 15 times in the vagina is also called premature ejaculation. This opinion is still controversial.