Is it normal that it can't be inserted the first time?

Generally speaking, during the first sexual intercourse, most of the time, because both parties are quite nervous, and if the vagina is not lubricated enough, it is easy to cause insertion failure. In fact, this situation is a very normal phenomenon. During the first sexual intercourse, you can do more foreplay to make the vagina sufficiently lubricated, and then enter slowly. Try a few more times and generally it will be fine. However, it is best for both parties not to be too nervous.

The first time for both men and women is definitely thrilling, but most of the symptoms are impotence, premature ejaculation, ruptured foreskin bleeding, etc. for men, and pain, ruptured hymen bleeding, urinary incontinence, or genital odor for women, which makes them feel anxious and embarrassed. These phenomena can actually be resolved by using some scientific methods.

1. It is normal to have premature ejaculation during your first sexual intercourse. You don’t need to be nervous when you encounter this situation. It is necessary to accumulate experience so that you can continue calmly next time. This will not affect your ability. As the number of sexual intercourses increases, you will find that you are getting stronger and stronger;

2. The hymen is innate, and every girl has it. As for not having "blood" after sex, there are generally two reasons:

One is that the hymen has been accidentally ruptured, such as when children insert small toys into the vagina due to ignorance, or encounter trauma, or sharp objects happen to hit the vulva, or masturbation, washing or vaginal suppositories cause damage, and some hymens are originally very fragile and can be ruptured during vigorous exercise; the second is that the hymen has large holes, good elasticity, and few blood vessels in the membrane, plus the boyfriend is gentle and not rough during ML, so the hymen can be kept intact after multiple MLs;

3. For men with long foreskin and short frenulum, when the penis is erect, the frenulum cannot adapt to the length of the penis and the penis will bend downward, affecting sexual intercourse. During sexual intercourse, in addition to laceration of the frenulum skin, the foreskin will often become incarcerated due to forced reversal.

When the incarcerated foreskin is stuck in the glans penis, it will cause pain. In severe cases, foreskin edema will occur. If it is not treated in time, it will further cause congestion or even necrosis of the glans penis. It is recommended that men should remove the "burden" through minor surgery as soon as possible to enjoy "sexual happiness";

4. During first sexual intercourse, men will experience penis flaccidity, similar to impotence. In fact, penis erection is stimulated by the mind, but not completely controlled by the brain. When having sex for the first time, men often have a lot of mental burdens, fearing that they will not perform well, fearing that they are not capable enough, just like taking an exam, very nervous.

To overcome this situation, we should have a certain level of mutual affection and understanding, and the environment where the relationship takes place should be clean, quiet, safe and comfortable, so as to avoid external factors affecting your behavior;

5. Among all the unwelcome body odors, the most unbearable is bad breath. Sex without kissing is not perfect. The second is body odor. Most of us think that the irritating odor from the body is more detrimental to sex than the size defect. Therefore, we should pay attention to diet and have good living habits in our daily life.

6. Urinary incontinence during sex occurs in both men and women, but the proportion of women is higher. The reasons for urinary incontinence during sex include problems with the structure and function of tissues and organs, as well as the influence of disease factors. The bottom of the female urethra and bladder is close to the vagina, which is easily stimulated by external pressure and biological factors. For example, if it is impacted by the male penis, coupled with unstable detrusor function and failure to empty the urine before sex, urinary incontinence is likely to occur. Good treatment can be obtained through medication and surgery. Regular pelvic exercises can also effectively prevent urinary incontinence;

7. Both men and women who have sexual intercourse for the first time may experience genital pain. First of all, you don’t have to be afraid. This is a normal phenomenon. It usually lasts for 1 to 3 hours at the shortest and a day at the longest. It is not a big problem and you don’t have to worry. If it lasts for more than a day, you should go to the hospital for diagnosis immediately.