The impact of a father's early death on boys

Everyone should know that for a family, the role and status of the father and mother are the same. In terms of family education, both the father and mother should set an example for their children. However, some children may lack the role of the father in family education. If the father dies early, the boy's personality will be weak and he will not have any opinions.

Fathers play an irreplaceable role in the healthy growth of their children. Both boys and girls can draw the spiritual nourishment they need from their fathers.

For boys, fathers have more influence on their temperament, living habits, hobbies, interpersonal relationships, and psychological state. We can always see the shadow of the father in the son. The father plays an important role in the development of the son's personality. The father can provide the son with a basic model of being a man and help him to correctly recognize his gender role. The father's personality traits such as independence, self-confidence, decisiveness, strength, and daring to take risks will deeply affect the son. Boys who have the opportunity to communicate with their fathers frequently will have more harmonious interpersonal relationships, be more open in their style of doing activities, and be enterprising and even adventurous.

The lack of fatherly love is common in Chinese families. The main reason is related to the traditional Chinese idea of ​​"men are responsible for the outside world and women are responsible for the inside world". Influenced by traditional Chinese social concepts and fast-paced life, in many families in my country, the education of children is the responsibility of the mother, and the lack of fatherly love is relatively common. Fathers are often busy with work due to the pressure of life and have no time to take care of their children's growth and education, which lays the hidden danger for failed family education.

Psychologist Freud once described the father as a protector, educator and idealized image of the child's future in the eyes of the child. The child's identification will make the child imitate the father as a role model and make his own behavior more and more like his father.

The lack of fatherly education makes boys more and more soft and feminine. Because fathers are always busy with work and rarely go home to accompany their children, the inherent good qualities of boys such as toughness, courage, decisiveness, generosity, and generosity will be gradually lost. In addition, they are usually taken care of by their mothers, which leads to some boys becoming weak, coquettish, unconfident, and not brave. They are prone to be petty and lose their temper... It is no wonder that nowadays there are more and more men who are weak in appearance and feminine in their every move, and a wave of "fake sissies" has blown.