Why can't my boyfriend ejaculate?

Ejaculation is a normal phenomenon that accompanies sexual intercourse, and generally occurs when orgasm is reached. Ejaculation refers to the act of sperm being ejected due to friction and squeezing when the penis of a man is inserted into the female vagina after he has sexual impulses. Many couples have sex before marriage, and in this case, they should take precautions to avoid accidental pregnancy. So what is the reason why some men cannot ejaculate?

Anejaculation refers to the inability to ejaculate in the vagina during normal sexual intercourse. Anejaculation can be divided into functional and organic types.

Organic causes include: phimosis causing the glans penis to be unable to receive sufficient stimulation to trigger ejaculation, phimosis causing erectile pain resulting in interrupted sexual intercourse and inability to ejaculate, sympathetic nerve damage, taking drugs that interfere with the sympathetic nervous system (antihypertensive, psychiatric drugs), genital malformation, trauma, etc. Functional causes are those that cause anejaculation when there are no organic changes in the body. In clinical practice, organic anejaculation is not common, and it is easy to find the cause and treat it. Here we mainly discuss the causes and treatments of functional anejaculation.

The most common clinical causes of functional anejaculation are lack of sexual knowledge and incorrect masturbation methods:

1. Lack of sexual knowledge: Some men who have received good family and social education have too few channels to learn about sexual knowledge, and have been taught to respect and love women since childhood. This makes them feel helpless in their sexual lives. They do not know that after the penis is inserted into the vagina, it needs a certain amount of twitching and stimulation to ejaculate. They often remain still after insertion. The penis that does not receive the proper stimulation will soon experience erectile dysfunction and inability to ejaculate. In such a situation, all they need to do is learn the correct sexual knowledge and change their wrong sexual concepts.

2. Masturbation is the only way to relieve sexual desire when there is no sexual partner, which is understandable. However, due to the poor self-control of young people and the incorrect way of masturbation.

The situation of masturbation causing no ejaculation is often seen in people who are used to masturbating by rubbing and stimulating the penis and glans. After getting used to this way of masturbation, the nerve sensation of the penis, especially the glans, becomes dull due to friction. Gradually, they need stronger friction and stimulation to stimulate ejaculation. At this time, the nerve sensation of the glans becomes even duller, which enters a vicious cycle.

The treatment for this condition that causes anejaculation is:

1. Stop masturbating and using strong friction to stimulate ejaculation to avoid further damage to the nerves of the penis, especially the glans penis.

2. Take effective Chinese medicine to regulate and restore the nerve sensation of the penis, especially the glans penis, and restore the normal ejaculation reflex: the ejaculation reflex is a nerve reflex pattern of "external genitalia receiving sexual stimulation - sexual center - stimulating ejaculation", and the formation of wrong nerve reflex patterns is a process. Similarly, it takes some time to restore the normal ejaculation reflex, which requires confidence and patience.