My boyfriend can't ejaculate

Sexual intercourse is also called love, which refers to the physiological activities between men and women. The male penis is inserted into the female vagina, and ejaculation occurs because of the pleasure. Nowadays, many boyfriends and girlfriends have premarital sex, some only have sex once or twice occasionally, and some live together. In the process of sexual behavior, there are always some embarrassing problems, such as what should I do if my boyfriend can't ejaculate?

Anejaculation usually refers to the inability to reach orgasm and obtain sexual pleasure, or ejaculation, although the penis can erect normally and have sexual intercourse; or the inability to ejaculate semen in the vagina, although semen can be ejaculated under other circumstances. Both are collectively referred to as anejaculation. Since this disease is mainly seen in young men, improper treatment can affect the relationship between husband and wife, and even lead to family breakdown, bringing mental distress to the patient.

With the same physical fatigue, some people cannot ejaculate when they are tired, while others have a stronger sexual desire when they are tired (for example, I am one of them. Experts explain that when men are tired, they have an instinctive desire to continue their lives). Even if they have sex a lot, some people cannot ejaculate, while others become more and more excited (because the frequency is high, so the body adapts and the ability to produce sperm is improved. I have also experienced this myself).

According to Chinese medicine, the reason for ejaculation failure is qi stagnation, blood stasis, vascular obstruction, blocked sperm passage, or kidney yang deficiency and inability to ejaculate, or kidney essence depletion. Treatment is mainly based on Chinese medicine, using Morinda officinalis, Epimedium, Golden Cherry, Rehmannia root, White Peony, Cornus officinalis, Zexie, and Epimedium to decoct in water and take twice.

If a man experiences this condition, it is likely related to being overly nervous. However, if this happens every time he has sex, it cannot be ruled out that it is related to excessive sex or the habit of masturbation. In this case, it is best to reduce the frequency of sex and quit masturbation.

Excessive masturbation can cause many problems, including spermatorrhea, impotence, premature ejaculation, prostatitis, etc. You should reduce the frequency of masturbation to no more than once a week, and it will get better slowly.

Generally, psychological factors dominate the causes of non-ejaculation, such as lack of sexual knowledge and improper sexual intercourse. Organic factors are more common in spinal cord damage, sympathetic ganglion damage, diabetes, chronic alcoholism, chronic prostatitis, etc. If you often cannot ejaculate, you must find the reason.

For anejaculation caused by mental factors, the treatment method is mainly to eliminate various psychological factors that can cause anejaculation. The husband and wife should work together to find out the reasons and treat them accordingly. The wife should be more understanding of her husband's situation and not complain, which will help eliminate the husband's psychological pressure. If anejaculation is caused by organic factors, the primary disease should be treated.