What are the top ten taboos for chasing girls?

It is actually a very natural process for a boy to pursue a girl. Although it needs to happen naturally, it also requires methods and approaches. You can't just blindly go to a girl and say you like her. Some girls may think this is great, but most girls will think you are crazy. Therefore, boys need to use methods and strategies when pursuing girls, and they also need to pay attention to taboos.

1. Sperm on the brain

Basically, this type of boy chasing after a girl can doom you to a miserable failure from the very beginning of the conversation. It is also the most loser and most vulgar behavior among all the kinds of failures you have seen or heard about.

For example, this kind of behavior is really ridiculous. Let's not talk about whether this method of picking up girls with almost zero success rate is useful or not. From the perspective of the audience, this behavior is also very disgusting and very loser. Imagine that at this time, if you go to QQ and pick up a girl and say "Hi, beautiful girl!", the girl's response will probably be either no reply or "You are so perverted." This kind of behavior has exceeded the basic quality bottom line of normal people. Of course, there are many people who start with "Let's meet up" in the WeChat and Momo nearby people. Although these two words are small, they can easily destroy your image. It is recommended that you use a more normal and polite opening line as a way of picking up girls.

2. Street-building anxiety type

Many boys have used this method to pursue girls, but it is easy to have obvious anxiety, which leads to failure in picking up girls. I personally suggest that you should not think too long when picking up girls on the street. You should think about it for about ten seconds at most and make up your mind within three seconds, otherwise just give up. Because the more you worry about it, the worse and more nervous you will be when you pick up girls. And many people are often defeated by anxiety when facing the anxiety of picking up girls. They think for a long time and dare not make a move. Then they find a reason to comfort themselves. Maybe they just miss a girl. But the negative effects of giving up after hesitation will actually accumulate. The more you can't take that step, the harder it will be to take that step in the future.

There are many details here, I summed them up into many small details to remind everyone. Then I have another buddy, that time I was chatting with him offline, and he was wearing a suit and tie. As usual, he should be the most handsome in our entire team at that time, but he was also the only one who got nothing, because he was dressed too formally, and the place where we chatted was usually always full of people selling insurance... So the result of every time he was chatted was basically "Sorry, I'm not interested!" "No, no, no!" (This is a sad but true story). In fact, regarding clothing, my personal suggestion is that you need to dress appropriately to make people feel comfortable, and there is no need to dress too formally.

The next is to choose the wrong target, such as those who are in a hurry to go to work or school, or those who are obviously not in a good mood. Here, try to avoid directly chatting up girls, because the success rate will be relatively low. For example, last time he saw a girl who was obviously almost about to explode walking on the road, and then he rushed over... This is a problem of target selection. Too mechanical. This is a case that broke out a while ago. It said that a group of people in a certain city would use the same words to chat up girls at a certain place every day at every time. Later, after a long time, they were discovered and exposed, and it seemed to be on the news. In fact, my personal suggestion is that they should learn dating and try to improve their spirit, but sometimes they still have to be impulsive, at least not too mechanical.

Taboos for boys chasing girls: Chatting

1. Check the household registration type

This is a common mistake made by many people who are not good at speaking in the early stages of chatting. Checking the household registration, as the name suggests, is the exchange of various information. To put it bluntly, it is: Checking the household registration: "My name is Zhang Dapao, what's your name?" "My name is Wang Xiaoli." "I'm 24 years old, how old are you this year?" "I'm 20 this year." "Oh, I'm from Nanjing, where are you from?" "I'm from Suzhou." "Then where do you live in Suzhou?" "I live in Kunshan, Suzhou." "Oh, Kunshan, then what do you do?" "I work as a chicken in KFC."

This is a very boring chat conversation with no fluctuations. Although these basic information should be mastered and understood, I personally do not recommend asking such boring questions. On the contrary, we can actually regard every content of the household registration inquiry as an opportunity to develop our rhetoric and show humor.

Normal chat: "Where are you from?" "My hometown is Kunshan, Suzhou." "Kunshan is a good place. I've been there once. I've also eaten the Aozao noodles there~" "Ah, you've been to Kunshan too?" "Yes, Kunqu Opera is very famous, although I don't know much about it." "Yeah, then have you eaten the Yangcheng Lake big crabs there?" "I haven't eaten it. I wanted to eat it that time, but I was in a hurry on a business trip, so I didn't have time to eat it." "I must eat it next time I go there." "Next time you go, remember to treat me if you are in your hometown~" "Well, of course." In this way, the topic of the chat is here, why do you have to check the household registration for no reason.

2. Drink plenty of water

This is a common question from students who don't know how to care about girls. In our daily lives, we often encounter girls asking if they have a cold, have their period, are injured, have a headache, etc. In fact, in my eyes, these questions are really very good opportunities, but many students miss them.

3. The boastful type

There is a saying that a good man does not talk about his past achievements, but many guys like to talk about it, and they like to talk about it actively. This is a big taboo. Don't show off your ability, don't show off your connections, don't show off your specialties, don't show off your thoughts, don't show off your ambitions, and don't show off your experience. I once had a buddy who loved to show off. For example, if I smoked a pack of 20 cigarettes, he would say, "Why do you smoke this kind of cigarette? I have several packs of Zhonghua at home, all given by others." Complaint: It's not that we haven't smoked Zhonghua before, but we don't think you are great because of this. For example, when I go out to eat, he will also say, "I tell you, next time you eat at XXX place, tell me my name and I'll give you a 30% discount. Just tell me my name." Complaint: I really admire your connections, but I don't need to do this when I eat a ten-dollar rice bowl. So this guy later became my golden wingman, especially when I go out with girls, because I'm not handsome, so I can't find someone who is much more handsome than me or much uglier than me, so I found him. He looks okay, better than me, but as soon as he starts talking, I automatically become the only most attractive person in the room.

4. Using random words

This is a very wide range, and there are some common characteristics here, that is, there is a premise of "insufficient attraction". Many people start to use some random words when the premise of insufficient attraction is insufficient. To put it bluntly, insufficient attraction means that when the girl is not very interested in you, using some words at this time will often backfire.

5. Long-winded

I just want to say here, never reason with a woman, women are the only creatures in this world who don't reason, and don't talk to her about anything at length, don't say a lot of nonsense, there is no reason, just don't say it!

6. Too chatty

If you sit down and chat with a girl, many girls are actually chatterboxes. At this time, what you need to do is to listen. Never interrupt her. Although you may feel happy at the time, the girl will definitely not feel happy, because many people are more willing to express themselves than to listen to others. Mature men should learn to be listeners, occasionally guide the topic and express their opinions, but never talk about your own stories, never!

1. No concept of time

People who make this mistake are so stupid that they are kind of cute. Needless to say, just make sure your arrival time for the date is within fifteen minutes before or after.

2. Insufficient activity planning

One of the most important aspects of a man's charm is his initiative. Girls will say things like "whatever", "let's talk later", "we'll see when the time comes". You must not say that you must plan the entire activity, including what to eat, what time to eat, what movie to watch, what activities to do after dinner, etc. Of course, don't arrange it too detailed, otherwise it will be too routine and tiring.

3. Indecent behavior exposure

This includes spitting, littering, swearing, picking noses, being rude, etc. Some girls also mind smoking and other issues. Some people will say, "Of course I know this, how could I possibly do that?" But habits are really scary, and sometimes your behaviors are exposed unconsciously, so the best way to change these is to correct them directly in life, rather than remembering to pay attention when dating.

4. Door type

A trainee once went to a cafe with a girl. It took him half an hour to order a cup of coffee. I asked him the reason and he said, “How could a normal cup of coffee cost more than ten bucks?” Sometimes you just have to grit your teeth and get over it. Since you’ve made an appointment, you really can’t be too picky.

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5. Excessive movement

To put it bluntly, girls are disgusted by your rough hands and feet. Some students are eager for quick success and try to win her over on the first day, which sometimes leads to excessive advances. Remember this: if she is reluctant to hold your hand, don't be too quick to hug her shoulders.