How to get rid of the virgin complex?

In ancient times, many people had a virgin complex. With the development of society, people's concepts are very open, so most men do not have a virgin complex. However, in some rural areas, and among a small number of men in cities, a virgin complex still exists. If they find out that their girlfriend is not a virgin, they will feel uncomfortable and may even dislike her. This is a very bad mentality. Here are some ways to eliminate this mentality.

How to get rid of the virgin complex?

Men should be tolerant and accepting

Love is tolerance, acceptance and acceptance. In other words, loving the other person requires tolerance, acceptance and acceptance of the other person's shortcomings. If the boyfriend loves his girlfriend very much, but is very concerned about the fact that she is not a virgin, then what kind of love is this? If you really love your girlfriend, then you need to take the initiative to adjust yourself.

Women need more encouragement

In addition to male friends who need to reflect on themselves, female friends should also not sit idle. They should give plenty of advice to their boyfriends who have a virgin complex, tell them all about the past, and tell them that the past is past, that he is the only one standing in front of them now, and that he will be the only one they will walk together with in the future, so that they can feel the sincerity of your love.

Separate for a while

If the above two methods have been done, then both parties need to separate for a period of time. This period of time gives the man time to reflect and think. If he feels that he is deeply in love with the woman, then after this period of time he will find that he is indispensable. At that time, coupled with the woman's care, concern and love for him, his complex will be basically overcome.

If you can't overcome it, you can only break up

The virgin complex is indeed very difficult to overcome. If you have tried all the above methods but still cannot overcome the virgin complex, then you can only break up as soon as possible. Otherwise, if two people get married with grudges, they will often quarrel about this matter many years later. How uncomfortable it is. Even if they don’t quarrel, it is a thorn in their hearts, and the more it pricks, the more painful it becomes. So if you can’t overcome the virgin complex, breaking up is a kind of unlocking for both parties. Women will always meet a man who loves them and doesn’t care that they are not virgins, and men will always meet a virgin.