What to do if it is hard but not firm and will not last long?

The role of men in sex life is very important, because China is a relatively traditional country. If men do not take the initiative in sex life, it is probably very difficult to get women to take the initiative, after all, women are more reserved. However, after middle age, men often feel that their sexual ability has declined. So what should they do if their penis is not hard and does not last long?

If it is difficult to get an erection when standing up, but there is no problem when sitting or lying down, consider the possibility of vascular impotence. Of course, it is just a possibility. Don't be nervous. You can do a simple test on yourself first. The steps are: first abstain from sex for 7 days, during which time you cannot masturbate. Then observe whether you have morning erections. If you have morning erections, get out of bed in the morning and do a few squats while you are erect. If you find that your penis has become soft, you are more likely to have vascular impotence. This is because the hardness and strength of a man's morning erection are usually higher than those caused by masturbation, so the morning erection test is more accurate.

Vascular impotence is generally caused by poor congenital blood supply to the penis and a preference for rougher masturbation methods, such as grasping the penis forcefully and then stroking it vigorously, or clamping the base of the penis to make it erect and harder (of course, this is actually very stimulating), as well as some careless use of sexual tools, which can cause abnormalities in the penile venous return, usually the appearance of new reflux branches, that is, the increase in the number of penile reflux channels, or the thickening of the channel, so that the blood supply of the artery cannot keep up with the flow of venous blood return, and the penis is not easy to harden, or it is difficult to harden, and it is easy to soften.

If this happens, don't be nervous. You are very young and can usually recover. But the premise is that you can no longer masturbate vigorously and frequently, and be careful when using some tools. Specifically, it is recommended that you masturbate twice a month. Also, be gentle when masturbating. The frenulum of the glans and the coronary sulcus are the most sensitive. You can learn to stimulate them gently. Third, you need to strengthen your exercise, especially exercise your heart function, so that it is stronger and has a stronger blood supply capacity. In this way, even if the venous return increases, it doesn't matter, because your "active power pump" is stronger!

If all else fails (which is unlikely), surgery is the last resort. Through microsurgery, the extra venous return pathways are artificially ligated, and the penis will immediately become more erect and harder.