These types of men are destined to be "lack of energy" at night, it will be too late if they don't change

A netizen consulted online and said this. I just read a few posts from men, and they basically complained about their wives' sexual indifference. I want to say that they are really thirsty and frigid! I am a woman, 24 this year, married for more than 2 years, which is considered an early marriage. My husband is 29, works from 8 am to 4 pm, and has weekends off. When we first got married, our sex life was normal, once or twice a week, and the time was no longer than 6 or 7 minutes. In the past year or so, he rarely asked for it, and I always took the initiative! There was almost no foreplay, and the total time was about 5 minutes! I talked to him lightly, afraid of hurting his self-esteem, but there was no improvement. The only thing I can confirm is that my husband has not cheated. Except for sex, he is very good to me in other aspects and almost obeys me in everything! I am very confused now, I don't know what to do, I can't tell anyone about this embarrassing problem, but I am a woman with normal needs. What should I do then? After a long time, conflicts will definitely arise! Sometimes I get angry when I look at him for no reason! ! But I really don't want to cheat, I don't want to do anything to let my husband down! I hope that friends who come in and read this post can give me some advice!

I thought about this question for a long time. Today's society is different from the past. In a patriarchal society, women had no status. Now we emphasize equality between men and women, and the requirements for couples' lives are the same. How can we achieve harmony? There are many answers. Today I will talk to you about diet and medication.

1. Most men who like to eat and be lazy are not good at it.

Being lazy and gluttonous does not necessarily mean being obese. However, obese people have one characteristic: they are lazy and gluttonous. A man's sexual ability is related to his obesity level. The fatter he is, the less "capable" he is. I have no intention of discriminating against you. I have a basis for what I say.

There is a study that aims to explore and compare the causes, mechanisms and treatments of sexual dysfunction caused by different degrees of male obesity. Researchers investigated and analyzed the sexual function of 800 obese patients, and conducted a comprehensive analysis of the sexual dysfunction caused by patients with different degrees of obesity. The results showed that the obese group had obvious sexual dysfunction compared with the overweight group, and there was no statistically significant difference in the causes of obesity and comorbidities between the two groups. The conclusion is that male sexual dysfunction is related to the degree of obesity, mild obesity has little effect on sexual function, obesity can affect all aspects of sexual activity, and long-term exercise and weight loss and diet control are the main treatment measures.

It has little to do with what you eat, but the key to the problem is still the mouth. You can see information on the Internet that says eating some foods will cause men to be impotent, but this is actually not entirely correct. As long as you eat normally and eat reasonably, you will generally not get obese. Controlling your weight is beneficial to enhancing men's abilities. Therefore, I suggest that obese men control their mouths and move their legs.

2. Smoking can cause men to become impotent

We call smoking "eating tobacco", so I also classify smoking as eating. In the men's clinic, a large number of clinical practices in recent years have fully proved that smoking has a significant impact on sexual function. Experts explain that there are many patients with sexual dysfunction caused by excessive smoking every day. They point out that although tobacco can stimulate the brain and make it excited, it often causes an imbalance and disharmony between the excitement and inhibition of the brain, resulting in short-term excitement and long-term inhibition. The sexual impotence that is currently prevalent among American men is largely related to smoking. Ronald de Virag, director of the French Impotence Research Center, said: "There is a direct connection between tobacco poisoning and impotence." Therefore, in clinical practice, when I encounter patients who are not in good condition, I will recommend them to quit smoking.

3. Excessive drinking can also cause men to become impotent

I also drink alcohol, and I drink too much. When I say that drinking makes men impotent, many people object to me, saying that I got my wife pregnant after drinking. I said well, just like smoking, people who drink may be excited at the moment, but they will become impotent after a while.

Let's quote professional literature to explain the problem: Long-term alcohol abuse can cause sexual dysfunction in both men and women. According to a foreign survey, about 50% of male alcoholics and about 25% of female alcoholics suffer from sexual dysfunction. Male chronic alcoholics, excluding the influence of age differences, also clearly show a decrease in sexual desire compared to before, 40% of them have impotence, and about 5% to 10% have ejaculation disorders. In recent years, it has been found in clinical clinics that more than 40% of men with impotence are alcoholics, and alcoholics almost lose their sexual function. Recent medical research has confirmed that the sexual dysfunction of male alcoholics is partly caused by the direct effect of alcohol on the reproductive organs.

Yes, if you are an alcoholic and find that you are not doing well, it is best to change.

4. Some drugs can cause men to become impotent

Chinese and Western medicines may cause male sexual dysfunction. Someone has done some statistics and found that more than 40 kinds of drugs can cause male dysfunction. First of all, the drugs with the greatest impact are antipsychotic drugs. This type of drug can cause adverse reactions such as sexual dysfunction, and the domestic incidence rate is as high as 22%. The second category is antihypertensive drugs, which can also cause dysfunction. Common antihypertensive drugs are: thiazide diuretics, spironolactone, methyldopa, clonidine, reserpine, propranolol, labetalol, etc. These are very boring names, but patients with hypertension are very familiar with them. The third category is antihistamines, such as promethazine, which can cause dysfunction. The fourth category is lipid-regulating drugs and drugs for treating stomach problems, such as ranitidine, which can cause dysfunction.

It is important to point out that Chinese medicine for impotence can also cause male dysfunction. The reason is that these drugs are effective when first used, but if used for a long time, they will inhibit sexual function. Most of the dysfunction caused by drugs can be improved by stopping the drug.