What to do if sexual fantasies lead to premature ejaculation

As the old saying goes: Food and sex are both part of human nature. Sex, like eating, is a normal human need. When the reproductive organs are fully developed, the body will become sexually excited, that is, there is a sexual desire requirement. People who satisfy their sexual needs through masturbation fantasies mostly occur in young men and women after puberty, and men are more likely to do so than women. What to do if sexual fantasies cause premature ejaculation?

Moderate masturbation is beneficial to human health, but if you do it too much without restraint, you may get sick without being careful.

1. Do you still need to masturbate when you have sex?

In fact, the two are not contradictory. If you have sex frequently, you may not even have the strength to masturbate. Under normal frequency of sexual life (such as 2-3 times a week), occasional masturbation does not actually mean anything (it is more normal if it is forced by Japanese love movies).

This does not mean that men are dissatisfied with the quality of their married life or their lovers. So if you encounter them doing DIY, don't be scared or feel burdened.

2. Practicing gynecology is good for your health

Masturbation is a unilateral sexual activity that is performed to satisfy one's own sexual desire. According to a survey, 94% of men and 85% of women confess to masturbating. There have been many different opinions on the relationship between masturbation and physical and mental health over the years.

A new study conducted by the Public Health Society of the University of Sydney in Canada found that masturbation can prevent and cure a variety of diseases (avoid prostate cancer, increase penis hardness, enhance immunity, help fight infection, reduce blood pressure, treat insomnia, improve mentality, etc.) and is beneficial to physical health.

Additionally, the researchers found that through masturbation, men learned about their preferences and areas of interest, which enabled them to perform better in real life.

3. There are certain risks in using a pipe

Compared to other sexual activities, masturbation is very safe. You don't have to worry about contracting sexually transmitted diseases, and you won't get a girl's belly enlarged. But low risk doesn't mean no risk.

After masturbating frequently without limit, you will feel dizzy, weak, dry mouth, sweating, weak (feeling headache), etc. These conditions require physical and mental cultivation (abstaining from masturbation) for a period of time, and the body will recover.

If you use an extreme method or a rough posture during masturbation, it will injure the foreskin, which is too long, and the glans penis will become infected and inflamed after a period of time. (Because the mind is highly excited during masturbation, the damage is relatively small and not easy to detect. Usually, you will realize it only after the infection.) If you do not take anti-inflammatory treatment in time, it will cause foreskin adhesion, urethral stoma inflammation, urethral orifice narrowing, and even the inflammation will go back up along the urethral orifice, causing urethral infection.

Too frequent and too intense masturbation may cause damage to the soft tissue and skin around the penis, and in more severe cases may even cause "penile fracture" - which is very painful. There are no bones in the penis, but when the bloody penis is bent violently, the white membrane outside the penis cavernous body will be damaged, showing a similar fracture situation. This requires immediate medical treatment.

Frequent masturbation will cause the male prostate to swell and swell, leading to prostatitis. The male prostate has abundant aortic blood supply, but the venous blood flow back has a relatively large friction resistance. Excessive masturbation will cause repeated prostate hemorrhage. This is also the reason why many patients often say that they experience lower abdominal pain and perineal discomfort after masturbation.

Frequent masturbation is like excessive sexual intercourse, which can cause excessive excitement of the erection nerve center and the ejaculation nerve center, resulting in fatigue, and the excitement turns into inhibition, causing impotence, premature ejaculation, etc. Moderate masturbation can increase the tolerance to sexual excitement, making it less sensitive, and relatively shortening the ejaculation time. However, masturbation too often will have the opposite effect. In clinical medicine, most patients with premature ejaculation basically have a history of excessive masturbation.

4. How to define “more”? There is no standard

This aspect cannot be explained with actual data, because the differences between different individuals are usually beyond our imagination and can only be understood by ourselves.

If you don't feel any discomfort after masturbation, and it doesn't affect your work and daily life, then please release it freely! But if masturbation affects your daily situation and normal sex life, you need to "restrain" a little.