It’s okay for a man to have standards when looking for a wife, but these standards are absolutely not acceptable!

Many men have this feeling: every time they go home, their family keeps urging them to get married, so they find a wife right away. So what are the standards for finding a wife, and what standards should not be met?

1. Find a wife who looks like an old mother

In a man's mind, mother is the perfect female image.

There is nothing wrong in choosing a wife according to your mother's standards, but there are no two people in the world who are exactly the same. Moreover, your mother's perfection is more due to maternal love, and the emotions of your partner are different from maternal love.

Remember! An old woman will not give you motherly love, only endless nagging!

2. Find a wife according to the standards of first love

For men, first love always occupies a place in their hearts and is the woman they can never forget.

But once missed, it's missed. The good times can never be returned. Fantasizing about finding a wife based on the standards of your first love is not only unrealistic, but also unfair to your wife.

She is not your replacement!

3. Find a wife to be a nanny

Many men think that finding a wife is a very good deal: she not only satisfies their physical needs, but can also help them take care of all aspects of life, such as washing clothes, cooking, and doing housework...

My wife is not a maid!

She is the one you will spend your whole life with. She is there to be loved, not to work for!

4. Find a wife according to the standards of a goddess

Every man has an ideal female standard in his heart, which they call a goddess.

But life is down to earth, while goddesses are high above. If you fantasize about finding a goddess-like woman as your wife, you will eventually find that reality is far from your ideal!

5. Find a wife with strong sexual ability

Many men hope that their wives are virtuous outside of bed and crazy in bed.

But life is not about being dissatisfied. Too much is as bad as too little! If a couple wants to last long, they must coordinate with each other. If your wife doesn't want to be together, but you force her, it will only lead to unhappiness between the two of you!

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