A man without this kind of "dignity" will definitely get divorced

In real life, sometimes the wife consciously or unconsciously undermines the husband's sexual self-esteem, which at the very least makes the husband embarrassed, and at worst causes the husband's sexual dysfunction, and even leads to a rift between the couple and the disintegration of the family.

She suspected her husband of looking for flowers for no reason, and could not bear the separation.

To protect your husband's sexual self-esteem, you must first believe in his sexual morality. A wife's groundless suspicion of her husband will cause great harm to his self-esteem.

Zhang Sikui is a salesperson, and his wife Hu Yunling is an accountant. Zhang Sikui is handsome, has strong social skills, and is often on business trips, which makes Hu Yunling very worried. Before each business trip, Hu Yunling always actively expresses her love to her husband and asks him to "make love for the third time"; when Zhang comes back from a business trip, she can't wait to have sex with her husband again. In her words, this is called "killing two birds with one stone": first, a short separation is better than a new marriage, "sexual interest"; second, it can also be used to test whether her husband has betrayed her. Once, her husband came back from a business trip in the middle of the night. He was really tired after sitting on the train all day, but Hu Yunling still refused to "let go" and insisted on having sex. Seeing that her husband would not compromise at all, the two of them had a fierce argument. After this incident, the couple did not speak to each other for half a month, and their marriage was in jeopardy. The husband could no longer tolerate his sexual dignity being hurt again and again, and the couple, who should have been happy, had to go their separate ways.

It was just a joke, but it caused her husband to suffer from impotence.

To protect your husband's sexual self-esteem, you must believe that your husband is a normal person. He is neither a sexual superman nor impotent. As a wife, although you will not intentionally undermine your husband's self-confidence, you may inadvertently hurt your husband's sexual self-esteem.

Xiao Ai is cheerful and likes to joke. On the wedding night, she and her husband entered the bridal chamber. After they undressed and went to bed, Xiao Ai closed her eyes slightly and her face flushed. She was ready to welcome the moment of intoxication, but she didn't expect that her husband's "that" was not competitive, and it "ejaculated" as soon as it came into contact. Xiao Ai was somewhat dissatisfied, but when she saw her husband panting, she suddenly found it funny and blurted out a joke, "I didn't expect you to be a good project manager, but you are so bad at this 'project'", which embarrassed her husband and made him blush. Every time they had sex, Xiao Ai's husband would always think of what Xiao Ai had said, which left an indelible shadow on his newlywed life. Xiao Ai really regretted it. Fortunately, after treatment from a psychologist and with Xiao Ai's tenderness and encouragement, her husband finally regained his vigor.

Using sex as a reward to punish people desecrates love and destroys the family

If a wife attaches too many conditions other than emotional factors to her sex life with her husband and regards sex as a reward or punishment for her husband, it not only hurts her husband's sexual self-esteem but also desecrates sex.

Sometimes the husband is very interested in sex, but the wife may not be interested in sex at this time, and does not want to have sex with him at all, so she makes many demands on him: prepare water for me to wash my face tomorrow morning; you have to buy breakfast tomorrow morning; we can have sex, but you have to wash the big basin of clothes! After the husband agrees, she will get dressed and leave, and let him "ravage" her without moving. As you can imagine, the quality of this kind of forced sex life is not very high.

Since ancient times, men have been endowed with the image of great mountains. They seem to be as majestic as mountains and never give up. In fact, men also have a fragile side and a sense of vanity. They need to be respected by society and others, and sometimes they also desire women's "favor". In a sense, it also maintains the emotional life of the couple and keeps it from deviating from the healthy track.