Why do boys not like to wear condoms?

Normal men like to do "negative distance" contact, but most of them are against using condoms, unless they are going out with mutual consent or in romantic places, and they are worried about responsibility or getting sick. Men are against using condoms, usually because they feel that using condoms adds an extra layer of hesitation, and without the moistening of female blood, there is less sense of reality and happiness. Some people do it for convenience, some even think that contraception is simply a woman's business, and some people do it to save the money for condoms... In short, there are many reasons for not using condoms.

Why don't boys wear condoms? Many lovers or couples who don't want to get pregnant will ask boys to wear condoms, but 20% to 90% of boys refuse to do so. What is the reason for not wearing condoms?

Why don't boys wear condoms?

Many boys feel that sex is separated by a layer of membrane, and their mental states always feel like they are in two different worlds. Without real physical communication, they cannot get complete happiness during sex, which is equivalent to the other party not completely accepting themselves. "Wearing cotton socks to wash feet" and "wearing raincoats to work" are the true experiences of many male friends in the use of condoms.

What should I do if a boy doesn't wear a condom?

Regarding the view that men feel worse when having sex with condoms than without them, the authoritative experts believe that this is actually caused by psychological barriers. It feels that wearing condoms will reduce the sensitivity of the male genitals, but in reality the difference is not likely to be that big or even imperceptible. Because there are many types of condoms, women who want men to wear condoms can gradually persuade them. It is also recommended to buy some thin condoms to try.

Even in today's new era, there are still many areas where women's health is ignored. For example, my female friend in Zhejiang Province, her husband refused to use a condom every time they had sex, and as a result, she got pregnant frequently and had frequent abortions. She went through seven or eight times, causing her endometrium to become thinner and thinner. If she got pregnant again, she would need to have her uterus removed, or even die. How sad!

In fact, it is a problem that can be solved with a condom, so why has it developed to this extent? I believe that such a situation occurs every day. The so-called "three obediences and four virtues" in traditional education are still popular in many areas, and married women are under the influence of being manipulated, especially in the sexual life of couples.

As a woman, what should you do if your man hates wearing condoms?

First of all, you should not act recklessly based on your own goals. This is not a simple "one pregnancy makes you stupid for three years" problem, but a serious matter that may seriously affect your personal health. I think no woman would want to endure all kinds of gynecological diseases in middle age and old age!

Secondly, regarding the "negative distance" contact exercise, if both parties dislike using condoms, they can try to arrange it during the safe menstrual period; if it is not the safe menstrual period, they must pay attention to taking contraceptive measures. People with a physique prone to pregnancy should be more vigilant. Here, I strongly disagree with the practice of couples taking contraceptives after sex to prevent pregnancy. This thing is sometimes okay once, but if you take it too much, the side effects are not only reflected in the few days after taking it, but will continue to affect your menstrual period and even cause other safety hazards.

Finally, you must have your own perseverance, don't be soft-hearted or have a sense of luck. No man will like a woman with gynecological diseases all over her body, so for your own health and future sex life, you must communicate with your target in time.