Men's psychology when meeting again after a breakup

After breaking up, both men and women will ruthlessly delete each other's contact information, and some men and women will never see each other again in their lives. However, there are always many coincidences in life, and some men and women meet again in certain occasions after breaking up. At this time, the psychology of men and women will show different states. So what will the man's psychology be like when meeting again after breaking up?

Men's psychological stages after a breakup

Breaking up is a problem that everyone will face sooner or later in their life, regardless of whether they are men or women. Only a very small number of people in this world are so lucky to grow old with their first love. Many women will feel so miserable after breaking up that they lose their appetite, even get depressed, jump off a building, commit suicide, etc. But we rarely hear of such things happening to men. So, are these men really not sad and indifferent after breaking up, or are they hiding something else?

The first stage: Feeling grateful for freedom, finally getting rid of the nagging and endless quarrels, he may feel a little disappointed, but mostly happy. If at this time the woman keeps calling to ask for reconciliation, the man who has tasted a little freedom will feel annoyed, and the little nostalgia he had will disappear, and he may say some particularly cruel words.

The second stage: go out to eat, drink and have fun with friends, complain about your troubles, and be happy. But when you return home, you find it’s deserted and no one is taking care of you when you are drunk. You start to feel a little regretful, but you still don’t regret your decision to break up.

The third stage may be when you suddenly wake up at night, when you are sick and need care, or when you pass by the place you loved and suddenly look back and realize that you have broken up with your lover. You will be very sad at this time, and even want to call your ex to reconcile, but you are unwilling to lose face because of face issues, after all, you once said such cruel words.