Symptoms of a man having an affair

Every woman wants to have a happy marriage and walk hand in hand with her lifelong partner. However, when they first get married, there are vows and sweet words. As time goes by, men have affairs, commonly known as cheating. Two people cannot avoid quarreling over trivial family matters. After quarreling, many men will have some impatient thoughts about women, so cheating occurs, which is what we call men having affairs.

Symptom 1:

I'm busier than usual, so I set a password on my phone that you don't know.

Many men will sit in the car for a few minutes before getting out when they go home. I once asked a friend what they did during that minute. A said he destroyed evidence and deleted all unnecessary messages on his phone, including messages from female colleagues asking him to bring food. B said he just wanted to sit quietly for two minutes and smoke a cigarette. C said his children were noisy and his wife was quarreling, so he took a deep breath, adjusted his attitude and kept smiling.

Hearing them say this makes me feel that men are very tired. But if a man has this mentality, then he must not have much affection for his wife, otherwise he would not be like this. Generally, men would rush home to hug their wives and kiss their children. If a man does not allow you to look through his phone again, and even if he lets you see it, he has deleted all the chat records, then this man must have something going on and has a secret that he cannot let you see.

Symptom 2:

He doesn't call you when he goes out, doesn't like to go home to have dinner with you, and always says he ate outside.

If a man loves a woman, no matter how busy he is, he will take time out to have dinner with her. If he says he has, of course he has eaten with another woman and does not want to eat with you. My best friend Ling's boyfriend cheated on her for more than a year before Ling found out. She could count the number of times her husband had dinner with her that year, but she finally told her that her husband had dinner with his lover every day after get off work. She always thought that her husband was too busy and came home late, and he was afraid that she would be tired and troubled, so he just had a meal outside. Sometimes it's sad, but the reality is the most heartbreaking.

When Ling's husband was having an affair, he met a woman who had no regular eating and sleeping habits. Ling's husband would accompany her to eat on time every day, fearing that she would be hungry or have a stomachache, but he never thought about whether his wife had eaten and drunk enough at home. When he got home, he would fall asleep directly, and when asked, he would say that he was too tired. On the one hand, he sought his wife's understanding, and on the other hand, he never felt guilty.

Symptom three:

He began to pay attention to his appearance, get a regular haircut, change his clothes more often than before, and began to pay attention to his own clothes.

You suddenly find that your husband is more particular than before. He dresses very smartly every day without you reminding him. He also asks you to buy this and that for him. Then you don't need to ask. Just like women, they dress themselves up to please themselves. He is the same. When there are people who like to see him, he falls in love with others. During that period, he pays attention to himself. It is not what you think. His habits have improved.