Signs of a mature man

Many female friends like mature men very much, so that they can make their lives better, but many men always do childish things, which makes them not liked by female friends. In fact, generally speaking, the sign of a mature man is that he does things more steadily, is not so frivolous, and has a relatively stronger ability to withstand blows.

Being able to "despise" the opposite sex and not take it seriously is a sign of maturity, so it is placed first because it is the first step towards maturity in life. Being able to not take the opposite sex seriously is difficult for people, especially young people. It is precisely because of this difficulty that it has become a symbol of maturity.

Here, "disdain the opposite sex" does not refer to gender discrimination. It means that men should not take women seriously, and women should not take men seriously. A superficial person may have a superficial doubt: Is it possible to not take the opposite sex seriously? Isn't this too cruel? In fact, "disdain the opposite sex" here mainly refers to being able to understand and interact with the opposite sex with a peaceful, healthy and calm attitude. Disdain does not mean rejecting the affection and love for the opposite sex, but rejecting

Never be afraid of the unhealthy mentality and behavior of being frightened and weak-boned when seeing the opposite sex. Boys and girls are innocent and pure, full of curiosity and mystery about the opposite sex, and these are all immature behaviors. One day you will understand that men are just like this, and women are just like this. We can have a good impression of the opposite sex without having to

Curiosity and mystery. This sense of mystery and curiosity will lead to the ups and downs of people's emotions, making them happy, miserable, happy, and painful. People in love may not be able to stay sober, but in daily life, we can often see people losing their composure in front of the opposite sex. Not taking the opposite sex seriously does not mean that you will lose your enthusiasm for life, but it will reduce disappointment, hurt, and be able to express yourself naturally and calmly.

Constantly denying oneself is a necessary condition for maturity and an important sign of maturity. Denying oneself is a profound thought activity that comes from the recognition of truth and self, rather than self-deprecation and self-contempt. Denying oneself is the result of thinking, rather than "emotions triggered by the scene". As long as you constantly reflect on and face yourself, you will constantly deny yourself.

It is not easy to know yourself, and it is equally difficult to deny yourself. People are most likely to be self-righteous and stubborn. In the face of truth, no one has the qualifications to be conceited. There is a saying that what we need to change most may be the thing we insist on the most. However, people often think that they are always right, regard arrogance as maturity, and stubbornness as personality, and in the end they can only "regret it too late". In fact, people's cognition is shallow, and everything is constantly changing. How can you not change? Things are changing, the situation is changing, and the truth is also changing. This requires you to constantly change your original cognition and deny the things you once insisted on. I have shown people a secret to making fewer or no mistakes on important issues. I say that when you are faced with a difficult decision, you should do the opposite of what you think, and the result will be correct. That is, when you