Four reasons why men don't want to fall in love again after divorce

In modern society, divorce has become a common occurrence. Many couples go their separate ways every few days. Perhaps it is because of emotional discord between the two people, or it may be due to the influence of various factors such as society, family, and career. Some people have found that divorced men seem to lose interest in love. Why is this?

1. Still harboring the shadow of your ex-wife.

After a divorce, a man will still think about his wife, which will of course have an impact on remarriage. He will unconsciously think of his ex-wife and even make comparisons. Apart from the fact that his ex-wife abandoned him, perhaps in his heart, his ex-wife is still the best. Such a man is of course a bit foolish and pedantic, but there are indeed such men who are more nostalgic and can never get out of the shadow of their ex-wife. Naturally, they also have concerns about remarriage.

2. Don’t dare to let go and love.

Not daring to let go and love is a common mentality of men after divorce. This is a complex psychology at work. After adjusting to distrust of women, there are always some doubts in the subconscious mind. Some influences of the ex-wife also exist to some extent, and there may be some lack of self-confidence. In this case, even if the man starts a new relationship, he loves a little restrained, not enough to let go, and not enough to get married. This is certainly not what the woman wants. Conflicts occur again, and men are sometimes afraid that this marriage may not be stable, so they may simply choose to give up the opportunity to get married again.

3. Fear of losing freedom again.

Marriage always restricts people's freedom. After being married for a long time, whether it is a man or a woman, but more often a man, if the other party leaves for a period of time, although they miss each other, there is always an inexplicable sense of relaxation in their hearts. This is the free psychology of people. Men feel helpless after divorce, but the departure of their wives makes men appreciate the many advantages of being single again, especially after experiencing a failed marriage, men have a sense of liberation and relief.

4. Distrust of women.

After a divorce, a man may become distrustful of women. Although this is unfair to other women, it is a normal psychological reaction. Most people can adjust quickly and do not really hold a resentful attitude towards all women. Men are strong, but also fragile. For a man who values ​​feelings very much, even after a period of adjustment, there will always be a certain suspicion of women in his heart. If the next woman cannot break this distrust and suspicion with true love and loyalty, then for the man, remarriage may be quite difficult.