What are the stages of love? What are the differences?

It is a great fate for two people to be together. A couple goes from being lovers to being sweethearts, from simply being friends to being a couple living an ordinary life. Dating is also a period of time when a couple gradually gets used to each other. So what are the stages of dating?

1. Passionate love period

After you have feelings, test each other's feelings, and then confess. Some people may feel unhappy during the confession process and may go through a period of indifference, and then quietly feel the feeling of being in love, and finally establish a relationship. This is the first stage, establishing a relationship. Sometimes it will go smoothly. But generally, people who are serious about it will be picky about their feelings, and will let go and love only when they feel right.

2. Understanding period

After establishing a relationship, you will want to understand each other, even want to know what the other person's eyes mean, which means you have entered the passionate love stage.

3. Run-in period

After a period of getting to know each other, you will start to adjust to each other. There may be disagreements or different personalities, which may be accompanied by cold wars and quarrels. As long as the communication is good, the relationship will become deeper and deeper. If the communication is not good, you may get tired and give up halfway.

4. Getting along period

If you are still together after the adjustment period, you will understand that no one is perfect, so generally there are no major flaws that you cannot accept, and you can be happy if you can tolerate other minor flaws. This period becomes a stable period.

5. Joint development period

Generally, after a long period of adjustment, love will tend to be stable, and two trends will form: one is to care about the development and future of both parties, and the other is to consider the reality and re-examine each other. This is the most difficult hurdle. This has nothing to do with feelings, but with livelihood. When a couple is not together for the sake of the future, it can only mean that this kind of couple is not able to shoulder the responsibility of building a family. Such love seems to lack some substantial things of sharing weal and woe. Therefore, once there are setbacks and interference from third-party social factors, it is likely to be dispersed. Even if this kind of love is vigorous, it cannot escape the test of reality. Therefore, when choosing a spouse, you must choose a high-performing stock. Luck may not be good, but the will to survive must be strong. Only in this way can you have the motivation to face the pressure of life and work hard for your family in the future.