The thing a man always wants to do behind your back

Men are always dissatisfied, and they always look at the pot while eating from the bowl. No matter how well their wives do, they still think their wives are not perfect enough and that other people's wives are better. So they will develop some ambiguous relationships behind women's backs, which may be between colleagues or friends.

1. Develop an ambiguous relationship

Men are always dissatisfied, and they always look at the pot while eating from the bowl. No matter how well their wives do, they still think their wives are not perfect enough and that other people's wives are better. So they will develop some ambiguous relationships behind women's backs, which may be between colleagues or friends.

Although men have those thoughts of cheating, many men have the desire but not the courage. If they have the courage to take action, they just want to have a quick taste of it and still want to have a complete family. Therefore, many times men will only say some ambiguous words to other girls through mobile phones or QQ behind women's backs.

2. Missing the good things about your ex-girlfriend

An ex-girlfriend is a wound in a woman's heart and is considered a love rival. Many men will say that they have no contact with their ex-girlfriend. But think about it, no one can completely erase the memory of the past. After the two of you have a quarrel, he will quietly miss the good things about his ex-girlfriend and compare you with his ex-girlfriend.

Men never have only one love affair, and they always miss their ex-girlfriends from time to time. Some men even go so far as to hide their relationship with their ex-girlfriends.

3. Save private money

Men become bad when they have money, so many women will not let men have enough money. The money that men earn with hard work must be handed over to women for safekeeping, or in other words, one person earns money for two people to use. Women all follow a principle: what's yours is mine, and what's mine is still mine.

However, men need to socialize and develop some ambiguous relationships, which all require money. Therefore, many men want to secretly keep some money that women don’t know about. Only by keeping private money can men’s private space become larger and larger.

If a man tells you that he will only love you for his whole life, then he is definitely lying to you. In this society, people think that it is rare to find a man who has a red flag flying at home and colorful flags flying outside. Therefore, many men are willing to take the challenge and test their abilities to see if they can handle the relationship between two women at home and outside.

Men want to have three wives and four concubines, so they will develop another relationship behind the woman's back and seek a romantic affair. It is said that it is the nature of men to seek a spouse. There are always many men who want to have an affair even after they have a good woman. Of course, this cannot be known to women, so you must be vigilant.

4. Find a confidante

When you are in love, you find that you can talk about anything; but after getting married, you will find that you have fewer common topics, you talk about yours and he plays his, and there is no intersection.