10 Difficulties of Being a Good Man

A good man has many responsibilities besides supporting his family and making a living (it is impossible to verify this because if he does, he will inevitably lose 50% of the votes - women).

1. Be presentable and decent.

Of course, if a man is laughed at by his girlfriend or wife's friends or colleagues, then he can forget about turning his life around.

2. Be able to act.

You have to act with your girlfriend or wife all the time, all for their so-called self-esteem. To be honest, it's really tiring. For example, if you put on makeup and look pretty, and you tell the truth, then they will say, "You're lying," but they feel sweet inside. If you say, "This is not good," or "That is a little inappropriate," what will happen? They will usually say, "Really? This is a trend, you don't understand." As a result, they will slightly modify it.

3. Be considerate.

In real life, you should not only be a good man, a good husband, and a good boyfriend, but also learn how to be a father and a brother. A man who can let your girlfriend or wife vent freely when she is sad. A man should learn to comfort your girlfriend or wife with different faces when she is sad, upset, unhappy, etc.

4. You should master most of the skills that you will use in life.

A man, the pillar of a family, will never allow a woman to say, "How come you don't even know this?" So they have to learn a lot of things. For example, a man majored in computer science in college, but after graduation he has to learn to be a chef for a period of time. Why? He says in a nice way, "My girlfriend likes to eat." I am ashamed and speechless.

5. Be physically strong.

Do you have the heart to let a woman do the work of moving rice and gas tanks? I don't believe it. Who would believe it?

6. Be able to tell lies (with good intentions, of course).

It is inevitable that a woman will have some jealous thoughts. At this time, if she confides in you, you must not force her to speak. You must learn how to tell "white" lies and help her discredit her imaginary enemy.

7. Be willing to work hard and be patient.

She can tell you about things that are not going well in her work and life, but you can't. If you do, you will be called "stingy, narrow-minded" or something like that. But... oh!

8. Make all kinds of disclosures possible.

Accounts must be made public, time must be made public, etc. For example, how long did it take to get to work today, why did you get off work 10 minutes late. Saying that it was a traffic jam is not enough, people will ask: "Why didn't you take a detour?"

9. Be knowledgeable.

When a woman has a problem, she will ask you first, "Honey, what's going on here?" When you finish explaining and are waiting to be praised, she suddenly realizes and says, "I thought the same as you did." If you don't know the answer, she will say, "Stupid, I won't ask you next time." Your status at home will plummet immediately.

10. Satisfy her needs in bed.

Various positions, and before doing it, she usually asks for time. "Honey, can we play for an hour this time?" I was dizzy. If I didn't meet her requirements, I had to make excuses, "I was tired at work these days, didn't eat much, and didn't have the energy."

It's hard to be a man, and it's even harder to be a good man! I remember a movie said "It's good to be a woman in the next life". I personally agree with this statement now. "It's good to be a woman in the next life"!