Men's psychology after domestic violence

Domestic violence is a type of vile behavior that is very easy to occur in marriages today. This behavior has now violated the law. The reason why male friends commit domestic violence is still closely related to their psychology. Most of the time, this phenomenon is caused by psychological distortion. Therefore, male friends who commit domestic violence need to receive psychological treatment. Only psychological adjustment can make the situation better.

1. Misplaced concepts.

Love and extramarital affairs lead to domestic violence. With the reform and opening up and the establishment of a market economy, people's ideas have undergone profound changes. Some people have lost their way in the fierce collision of various traditional, modern, local and foreign ideas, cultures, concepts and customs, and their moral concepts, especially marital moral concepts, have been misplaced.

Some men regard bad things as fashion, and use having an "extramarital affair" as a capital to show off to others. Some of them live with their "mistresses" illegally for a long time and have children. When they return home, they "find faults" with their wives, make their wives "wrong" and force their wives to divorce with various excuses. What's worse, some bring their "mistresses" back home to live with them and drive their wives out of the house. If the wives resist a little, they will cause domestic violence. In the survey, there were 60 cases of domestic violence caused by extramarital affairs, accounting for 30%.

2. Some people have distorted personalities and bad conduct.

Directly lead to domestic violence. Some men have twisted personalities and often suspect their spouses of having an unruly lifestyle. They do not allow their spouses to talk to the opposite sex or to work outside to supplement the family income. If their spouses resist, they will be subjected to domestic violence. Some young men and women have acquired bad habits and indulge in fun all day long. They are idle and do whatever they want, such as gambling, drinking, and whoring. Some of them run rampant in the countryside, endangering the people and being hated bullies. These people have no sense of family responsibility and go home to show off when things go wrong. For example, after losing money in gambling outside, they force their wives to borrow money. If they cannot borrow money, they will be subjected to violence. If the wife wants to file for divorce, she will be threatened and intimidated by them. The wife often swallows her anger and dares not report it. This kind of situation accounts for 22.5% of the total.

3. Severe male-dominated or female-dominated ideology leads to domestic violence.

In the past, people often believed that male chauvinists often liked to beat and scold their wives, but research by foreign sociologists has denied this view. On the contrary, feminine men are more likely to commit domestic violence. Experts explain that feminine men are often more sensitive and sometimes like to quibble. Especially after being oppressed by their wives for a long time, they are very impulsive and may beat their wives for a little thing in life to satisfy their self-esteem. In addition, some women have serious feminist ideas and are self-centered. They often deliberately insult and belittle their husbands, and sometimes beat their husbands, which leads to domestic violence.