When faced with betrayal, this is how a smart man should get over a broken heart!

Although many men usually pretend to be indifferent, they are actually very tender when it comes to love! Especially when they are betrayed by their beloved women, they will become painful and dejected after a breakup. So, how can men get over a breakup?

(1) Don’t think about the happy times you had with her in the past.

Think more about her shortcomings and bad points, otherwise it will be difficult for you to forget her, and you will be very painful. Words like "change your mind", "watery poplar flower", "scumbag", "bitch" and so on can come in handy. Don't be too polite to her. The more polite you are to her, the more you show your weakness and incompetence. If a woman has changed her mind, even if you tell her: I had a car accident today, and now I am in the hospital with only half my life left. She will not sympathize with you, nor will she comfort you, let alone think of visiting you in the hospital. She will only think: how can I please my new boyfriend, how can I make my new boyfriend love me more, should I go to Starbucks with my new boyfriend tonight to drink coffee or go to the movies.

(2) Don’t leave any space for her in your heart.

When you encounter a woman who has changed her mind, the poor brothers will definitely think that she will come back, and then treat her better than before, and the two of them will return to the sweet life when they first fell in love. Don't do this! Throw away all the things she gave you, throw away all the things you bought with her, throw away all the things she used, and throw away all the things she left at your place. Then make up your mind and completely cut off the way out to reserve space for her. You can send her a text message like this: "Bitch! I am with you just to vent my lust. Do you think I really love you? You are too naive. It's really good for you to leave me! Go to hell!" Never think about what will happen if you meet in the future, and never have such a naive idea as "We can still be friends after breaking up." If love is put aside, there is absolutely no way you can become friends. Besides, even if you meet that day, she will pretend not to know you. She definitely doesn't want your expired relationship with her to affect her current life.

(3) Try not to stay alone at home or in the dormitory, and don’t go online.

You can find some friends to drink, sing songs in KTV, and vent. You have to go to work and school during the day, anyway, try to find a show for yourself at night, don't let yourself calm down. Don't lie down in bed too early, you will definitely not be able to sleep, you will definitely have wild thoughts, and you may not be able to help but send her a text message like "I miss you, will you come back?" when you think about it, which is really a fall into the abyss of no return, and your weak nature after the breakup will be exposed to her. She will feel very happy: Hahaha, I didn't expect that I have such great charm! She makes you so painful, why do you want to make her proud? It's best to go home when you are very tired, take a shower and fall asleep immediately. Or drinking a little wine before going to bed is also a good idea.