What disease does a man have based on the speed of his ejaculation?

As the saying goes, men are like electric lights, coming fast and leaving fast. Premature ejaculation is a problem that troubles many men. However, if ejaculation is delayed, it is also a disease.

Ejaculating quickly during masturbation does not mean premature ejaculation

The actual sexual intercourse time for men is only 2 to 6 minutes, with an average of 3 minutes. This time is similar for people of different nationalities and races. It is abnormal if the time is too short or too long.

Many men attach great importance to how long they can "hold on" without ejaculating. This is a big issue related to face and dignity. Even in literary works, premature ejaculation is called "throwing away the armor" or "losing the battle". In fact, many people are not clear about the definition of premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation refers to the fact that after regular sexual life for more than half a year, the duration of sexual intercourse is often less than 3 minutes, which cannot satisfy the sexual partner.

Many men believe that if they ejaculate quickly during masturbation, they will also experience premature ejaculation during sex. In men's clinics, we often see young people who come to see us because of "quick ejaculation". However, their judgment of the speed of ejaculation comes only from the duration of masturbation.

In this case, experts believe that masturbation time cannot be used as a standard to judge the speed of ejaculation. Ejaculation time is affected by many factors such as physiology, psychology and environment. There are many differences between real sex life and masturbation. The latter cannot replace the former, nor can it fully reflect the real sexual ability of men. First of all, the impact of masturbation and sex on men's psychology is completely different. Sexual life is a normal way for men and women to have sex, while masturbation is a method taken by individuals for sexual satisfaction. During normal sex, both men and women tend to be more relaxed, and men naturally stay longer before ejaculation. When masturbating, men just enjoy the pleasure, and do not pay enough attention to the process, and may even deliberately omit it. In addition, many people masturbate secretly and are eager to end, so over time they will develop the habit of ejaculating quickly. Secondly, sexual intercourse is the friction stimulation between the penis and the vagina, which is gentle and smooth. Masturbation has a higher intensity of stimulation to the penis, and the sexual sensation is stronger, so ejaculation will naturally be faster than normal sexual intercourse.

Foreign experts have conducted a survey on a group of men with normal sexual function and found that during normal sexual intercourse, the average time for ejaculation was 8.25 minutes; while during masturbation, the average time for ejaculation was only 4.89 minutes.

Excessive masturbation causes men to "not ejaculate"

While many men worry about premature ejaculation, in Japan, about 30% of men are troubled by the problem of "not ejaculating", and this "not ejaculating" is also related to masturbation.

Fujita, a 22-year-old Japanese youth, said that since two years ago, he often takes 30 to 40 minutes to reach orgasm. The number of people in Japan like Fujita who suffer from anejaculation in their 20s is increasing rapidly.

Some experts believe that this is directly related to the growing popularity of pornographic films in Japan. Men masturbate while watching pornographic films. The "male protagonists" in pornographic films tend to last longer. In order to compete with each other in time, men often hold back their ejaculation, which unconsciously increases the degree of sexual stimulation required for ejaculation. The glans mucosal nerves are accustomed to the strong stimulation brought by friction, and their sensitivity gradually decreases, until they finally need strong friction to stimulate ejaculation. When they have normal sex, they cannot provide the strong friction brought by masturbation, so they lose the ability to ejaculate because of "no feeling".

Jiuzhou andrology experts explained that when men masturbate, they can control the technique, strength, and speed as they wish, so the stimulation to the penis is often greater. Long-term and frequent masturbation will "cultivate" the nerve center in the brain that controls ejaculation to become accustomed to high-intensity stimulation. "When the couple has a normal sexual life, if the woman is not very active, the man's sexual excitement will not reach the 'point' that triggers ejaculation, and he will not be able to 'fire'."

Don't take delayed ejaculation lightly

The problem of slow ejaculation should not be ignored. If you cannot ejaculate, you cannot complete a complete sexual intercourse, which is undoubtedly a great blow to men's sexual self-esteem. If most adult men have difficulty ejaculating, it is difficult for them to have a clear experience of sexual pleasure. This is because not ejaculating can easily cause congestion in the male pelvis and prostate, which will cause chronic inflammation and further affect their sexual pleasure.

Especially for middle-aged and elderly men who have long-term chronic diseases such as hypertension and diabetes, they may not have erectile dysfunction, but their ejaculation ability and ability to obtain sexual pleasure have declined under the influence of diseases and drugs. Delayed ejaculation not only reflects the pathological decline of his sexual ability, but also reflects that there is a problem with his health, and he needs to seek medical treatment from a professional doctor in time.

For men who have long-term work stress and physical fatigue, but no other physiological problems, they only need to be patient and relax to solve this problem. If the cause of anejaculation is high blood pressure, diabetes, etc., the underlying disease should be treated.