Men should not get married later than 35 years old!

On January 3, when discussing the current marriage situation and changes in China, he pointed out that the number of registered marriages in the country has continued to decline, and the age of first marriage has been significantly delayed. According to statistics, in 2006, the age of first marriage in Beijing was 28.2 for men and 26.1 for women.

In the same year, the average age of first marriage for Shanghai men was 31.1 years old, and the average age of first marriage for women was 28.4 years old. Those who marry late believe that getting married after a successful career, owning a house and a car, and having a stable foundation is a manifestation of being responsible to themselves and their lovers.

However, a survey shows that the ideal age for marriage is 25 for women and 27 for men. Previous studies have also pointed out that 23 is the best age for first sexual intercourse. Getting married too early or too late has adverse effects.

Researchers say that those who marry too early often do so out of passion and impulse, without a clear awareness of the responsibilities and obligations that marriage imposes on individuals; those who marry too late may have achieved success and have a clear idea of ​​what they want to gain from marriage. But this also increases their utilitarian side. In addition, the later a couple gets married, the more it will affect their fertility and even sexual ability.

It is believed that "men should get married when they are old enough, and women should get married when they are old enough" is an absolute truth. "I often encounter this situation in my work. Older men (over 35 years old) are particularly prone to sexual dysfunction when they just get married, especially those who have no sexual experience.

In fact, the reason is very simple. It is easy for a young man to learn to ride a bike, as long as he is not afraid of bumps and collisions. But if he learns to ride a bike at the age of 40, he will inevitably be clumsy and not so smooth and free. "

Men experience the peak of their sexual response and sexual ability between the ages of 18 and 22. At this time, most of them have strong sexual desires and are in a stage of sexual hunger. Sexual fantasies occur urgently and frequently, making men keen to seek opposite-sex partners. When they are over 30 years old, the urgency of men's sexual impulses will weaken. They are still interested in pursuing sex and still respond quickly to sexual stimulation, but the number of orgasms is no longer so frequent.

When men reach 40, unless there is abnormal stimulation, they cannot ejaculate quickly and continuously, and their sexual pleasure begins to change significantly. No wonder some people say that 40 is the old age of adolescence, and 50 is the youth of old age. At this time, the characteristics of men's sexual response change to diffuse and generalized feelings that extend to the whole body, and the pursuit of orgasm gradually becomes less urgent.