What are the pain points of men?

What is pain? People have different understandings of pain. Pain has no specific manifestations and no precise definition. There are illnesses, sufferings, and pains. I don't know how everyone understands men's pain. I don't know if my understanding is correct or not. It's just my own idea. I have made the following summary of men's pain for reference only.

In fact, you don't understand men's hearts

I have a feeling that in any family that has these problems, the women are fools and should bear the main responsibility. Women have never really figured out the men's mind, and always think that the men are their property, their private property, and that they can't do anything about what they say. Some women even treat their husbands like their sons, speaking without restraint, without strategy, and saying whatever they want, always thinking that it won't destroy their iron-clad love and family relationship.

In fact, the woman was wrong, very wrong.

Men are indeed women's private property, and they are willing to be their relatives' private property. Moreover, when men are in a bad mood, they are like obedient children, obeying women's words. Women are most proud at this time. When women are proud, they start to lose their composure, and trouble will occur if their brains are not straight.

Women rarely consider their husbands' dignity. Men are animals that defend their dignity more than women. Men are higher-level social animals. They have to operate in society every day. Their social relationships, the "public image" they build, and the "prestige" among their friends are not at home. In social life, men always show their best side to others in front of others, and try their best to hide their inferior and bad things. The more bad things are exposed, the less dignity a man can have, and naturally his taste cannot be formed, and of course he lacks status in society. Therefore, men contribute positive, progressive, revolutionary, moral, and heroic things to society, but leave their relaxed, lustful, and immoral things to the family. Women often take the impression they form of men at home as a universal standard, which is a huge mistake. When a man comes to a social environment, he has to show his "social image" and defend his "value" and "dignity". Any remarks that damage his image will deeply anger him. Women must be cautious at this time.

Men are people who want to save face. It doesn't matter how you treat your wife at home, but you have to give her enough face outside. There are only a few kinds of pain for men. The pressure of life, the pressure of work, and the pressure of family. What men want is to have their own strength, rights, and space, and not to be ignored or looked down upon. I hope everyone will read carefully and understand the pain of men.