What are the misunderstandings about male impotence?

A man's strength can be measured by his physical fitness, height, weight and other aspects. I think the biggest reason why a man can attract a woman is not because of how powerful he is or how handsome or rich he is, but most importantly, because he is a man, a real man, a masculine man. If a man loses his self-esteem in sex, then it would be a very self-degrading thing. The following is the opposite of the misunderstanding of male impotence. I hope everyone can learn some knowledge from it.

1. Treating a few failed sexual intercourses in the early stages of marriage as impotence

This situation is quite common, and it actually violates the principle that there must be a 2-3 month adjustment period after the couple starts having sex. At the beginning of the marriage, especially on the wedding night, too much excitement, fatigue, or even drunkenness; or because of the lack of cooperation between the couple in the newlywed stage, erectile dysfunction may occur temporarily.

In fact, this is not surprising. Some newlyweds have poor sexual performance because they have tasted the forbidden fruit before marriage. At that time, they acted under complex emotions such as groping, trying, nervousness, fear, etc., and the failure rate was high, leaving a shadow of their own poor sexual ability in their minds. In this case, there should be an adjustment stage in sexual performance after marriage.

2. Considering the inability to arouse a woman’s sexual desire and pleasure as impotence

This is a bigger mistake. As long as the man's penis can erect and penetrate, as long as the man can successfully complete ejaculation and reach orgasm through sexual intercourse, it is not impotence, even if sexual pleasure occurs. One of the characteristics of male and female sexual function is that "men are faster and women are slower", so if the man has ejaculated and the woman has not yet reached orgasm, this is a physiological phenomenon, at most a problem of insufficient sexual harmony, and should never be considered impotence.

3. Believe that masturbation will inevitably cause impotence

It is more common among unmarried young people and is a common misconception. Needless to say, masturbation is a common behavior among teenagers. Some people do worry that masturbation will cause impotence, and some people actually suffer from impotence afterwards. However, modern medicine has made it clear that the occurrence of such impotence is not essentially due to masturbation damaging the sexual organs, but rather to long-term masturbation causing mental and psychological factors.

In fact, the psychological activities of masturbators are very complicated, and they are often in a state of anxiety, guilt, depression, and uneasiness. This unhealthy thinking activity will hinder the normal functioning of sexual function. However, even if a person masturbates for a long time, as long as he can resolve the above mental "lumps", he may not suffer from impotence.

4. Impotence is defined as the lack of obvious erectile response on normal days.

In fact, there are two types of male penis erections from a physiological point of view: one is a reactive erection, which does not require any sexual stimulation and spontaneously occurs through nerve reflexes, such as an erection after sleeping at night; the other is a psychogenic erection, which requires some kind of sexual stimulation, including subtle sexual fantasies from the mind. Therefore, all erotic stimulation can induce psychogenic erections. This kind of psychogenic erection that occurs in daily life has a very complex pattern and will change with a person's physique, thoughts, emotions, etc., sometimes better, sometimes worse, and this is not an indicator of impotence at all.

After understanding the knowledge about the misunderstandings about male impotence, will it give more male friends a lot of confidence? Sometimes some symptoms are not actually caused by impotence, so if any symptoms occur, we should discover them earlier and then treat them effectively in time. This is responsible for our physical health and our families. Finally, I hope that every man can get his own happiness.